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Comment on Mesothelioma (what To Exspect?)? by o0PoSH0o

o0PoSH0o — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 10:54:42 +0000

excessive bleeding from the uterus

Comment on Mesothelioma (what To Exspect?)? by neetu

neetu — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 10:37:59 +0000

your face turns green and you pant like a dog till you die in a pool of phlegm and saliva and blood

Comment on Mesothelioma (what To Exspect?)? by Antonio

Antonio — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 10:29:27 +0000

I am sorry that your Aunt was diagnosed with mesothelioma.
Mesothelioma is a cancer, usually secondary to Asbestos exposure. If she was exposed to asbestos for long time at work, talk to attorney.
There are many law suites pending against employers.
As you mention it is inoperable, prognosis is not very good.

Comment on Mesothelioma (what To Exspect?)? by Denisedd

Denisedd — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 10:16:43 +0000

It depends on what your aunt wants if she is able to state what treatment she wants. Don’t hesitate to ask the doctor what he truly thinks about her prognosis if he can share that with you and if the chemo will really help. Also ask if it is beneficial to have a hospice consult. If she doesn’t have much time then she may want to think about comfort care and to truly think about quality of life then quantity.

Comment on Mesothelioma (what To Exspect?)? by Rhonda T

Rhonda T — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 09:52:02 +0000

Rhonda, I am sorry to hear about your aunt. Unfortunately, we do not have an effective treatment for Mesothelioma. Chemo will not cure her if that is what you mean by do any good. They are most likely giving it to her hoping she will respond well and give her more time. Her oncologist will know when it’s time to call hospice. It will largely depend on her response to chemo, her overall health and how much assistance she needs. It is impossible for anyone to know how much time she has without having more information. It is best to ask her oncologist and even then it will only be an estimate. Keep in mind doctors usually give patients and their families information in small doses as telling them everything at once is too overwhelming. You and your aunt should keep a list of questions to ask the doctor at each appointment. Just write them down when you think of them. I hope this helps a little. Best of luck to both of you.

Comment on Anybody Out There With A Family Member With Asbestoes Cancer? by Wise Young Sage

Wise Young Sage — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 23:57:15 +0000

go to acor.org and joint the email list for mesothelioma, it’s a great support group and lots of feedback on treatments etc. My Dad had meso also, and battled bravely for 18 months before he passed away. There are some long term survivors, but the doctors don’t know enough yet to know why some respond to treatment and why others don’t and why some treatments are more successful than others. Go join the list. Keeping you in my prayers.

Comment on Anybody Out There With A Family Member With Asbestoes Cancer? by goliathn

goliathn — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 23:00:16 +0000

Wow…I’m sorry first off.
Secondly, they will probobly remove the lung if only the one is violently infected.
If that doesn’t stop it, they will advance to KEMO radiation therapy.

Comment on Anybody Out There With A Family Member With Asbestoes Cancer? by Laura M.C.

Laura M.C. — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 22:35:43 +0000

Just hang in there with me, Munch. I love you.

Comment on Anybody Out There With A Family Member With Asbestoes Cancer? by you_like

you_like — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 22:33:30 +0000

My husbands dad died. But it wasn’t due to the asbestos cancer – he was struggling with it, but due to the treatment he suffered a heart attack. There is no sure prognosis, but if he is at a reputable hospital, his general health is good, and he is being carefully monitored, the best thing you can do is relax, minimize his stress as much as possible, keep him company, empathise, boost him as much as you can, and most importantly, pray.
God bless you both.

Comment on Anybody Out There With A Family Member With Asbestoes Cancer? by always

always — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 22:08:22 +0000

I’m so sorry. It’s a terrible and scary disease and just so hopeless at every turn.
I lost my dad to Mesothelioma back in 2003. His brother died from it a few years earlier, but progress is being made against the disease all the time. It claimed my uncle in only 9 months, but my dad made it almost 3 years – and was on medicines that weren’t even invented when my uncle was battling it. I imagine that’s the case now too.
We were lucky because he was able to be treated by Dr. Jablons at UCSF who is one of the big researchers in the field. My dad had chemo, followed by an experimental surgery, then radiation, more chemo and finally some compassion release chemo drugs that were part of a clinical trial.
My dad was a active and physically fit, so he was able to monitor his health quite well (he’d actually go for 5 mile walks after having his daily radiation). He could really monitor his breathing and getting his chest drained would make an short-term improvement. As he got sicker he complained a lot of the big “gorilla” that felt like it was compressing his chest all the time. He also had a lot of pain that got worse as his disease progressed – all of the pain was situated in his chest and lungs. He lost quite a bit of weight as he got sicker, and eventually was on oxygen and couldn’t walk across the room without having to sit down and catch his breath.
Some of the odd chemo side effects were that all of his black hair fell out but he kept his gray hair – so he looked older almost over night. It was weird. And everything tasted like metal to him when he was on the chemo (he had Cisplatin and I forget what the other one was)…everything that is but hot dogs.
I think some of the best advice we had was to really make each day meaningful and be close as a family.
The other thing that was a great piece of advice from Dr. Jablons that probably isn’t so obvious was to not be afraid of young doctors. I remember the second oncologist my dad had was so young we thought she had to be 17. But, young doctors are usually very willing to work really hard and research anything and everything to try and find a way to help you buy some time, while the older, more experienced oncologists tend to accept meso as a death sentence. The younger doctors tend to ask for a lot of advice from the experienced oncologists rather than relying on their knowledge, and they may have open options to participate in clinical trials where more seasoned veterans have used up all their trials. I guess the way a lot of research studies work is that each doctor is allowed 1-2 patients into the trial, so sometimes doctors have used up all their trials. It typically takes a lot of paperwork and effort to get a patient into some of the trials too, but having a doctor who has the tenacity to make sure everything gets done to ensure their patient is included is a relief.
Sorry, this is long winded but I hope some if it is helpful.